I know, you are wondering why a negative?

So we were married for 25 years before we separated. June 29 is our wedding anniversary, and that day I celebrated -1.

Made plans with a couple friends, we were going to see Mission Dance Saw them with one of these girls the week before, amazing!

We pregamed at Metropolitan Cafe for drinks, Metro never disappoints! Laughing and enjoying ourselves, that’s when I came up with it.

I remember asking them, do you know what today is, and neither remembered, so I said, today is the day I got married, 26 years ago, so Happy Negative 1!!!

Laughed more, enjoyed the concert, even got to see him after, neither of us mentioned the anniversary, and I wanted so much to tell him Happy Negative 1, but I didn’t. I was having a great day that I didn’t want any bad vibes.

We ate, drank coffee, and laughed more! Even though I had my own party with my amazing friends, I was still able to see him on the day we said I do, even if we’re apart.

Baby steps.