Category: health
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Conversations
I was having a conversation with a friend, and we got on the subject of how we would be living, and feeling in another 20 years. I’m 53 today, So when I look ahead at myself at 73 I’m hoping to be retired, enjoying life, and remaining active. Then she brought to my attention how…
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Overthinking
I know I’m in a better place in my life, but I often find myself thinking about him, what if he tried to make it work? When I see him, I see a sadness within him, defeated, too much on his plate, tired and drained. I know for me I’m better off, I would always…
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Hey, Vamos!
So I got a chance to go to Tulum, Mexico with a friend. Best quickest decision I ever made. Needed it. Family resort, loved how I was able to connect with myself and take a break from the normal routine Don’t be mistaken, I’m grateful for my normal routine. Blessed. Relaxed, unwinded and laughed! Laughed…
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Happy -1 Year
I know, you are wondering why a negative? So we were married for 25 years before we separated. June 29 is our wedding anniversary, and that day I celebrated -1. Made plans with a couple friends, we were going to see Mission Dance Saw them with one of these girls the week before, amazing! We…
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Almost Done
So I’m at the end, the end of my living arrangements, the end of the pack up, it took about a month. Yesterday I brought Us up to him. How did we get here? How did this happen? Why didn’t we communicate more? Why? At first it was as if he didn’t want to talk…
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One of my Triggers
As I reflect on how this situation can be a growing experience, I try to focus on something positive. My route to work will no longer require me to pass through her town, which means there is little to no chance of her driving past me. One of my Triggers is just that, driving to…
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Packing Up
So today I tackled the living room and a closet in the basement. The closet was easy, the living room, well that is another story. It brought me to tears packing up our wedding album, so sentimental and so many memories of what I thought would be forever. I continued to pack the room and…
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Times flying
Every day is a day closer to moving. Moving out, moving on, moving forward. Feels so long ago we were looking for our places, although it’s been only months. Now that we both have closed on our next chapter in life, we find ourselves more emotional than ever. For me, most days are good. Time…
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Closing Day
New chapter, new journey, new life. Closed on my new townhouse last week. Excited, and nervous. Excited for the new journey I have ahead of me. Hoping it’s a smooth path, with as little bumps in the road as the last few years have been. New town, new home, a new beginning. Nervous for the…